Friday, March 13, 2009

The Expected Turnaround

.I need to tell you that I’m not doing real well. I feel sick to my stomach and like my heart is going to explode. Most parts of my life have pretty much fallen to the wayside. It is just not within me to continue like this or
to do the things I want to at this point (be with you) – not while there are still loose ends here and things that need to be discussed and decided on as far as who gets what and how much and all that stuff.

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Ok - he came on to me and now HE is not doing well??? WTF does that mean? Does this mean that he really doesn't hate his wife as much as he claims? Does it mean that it is not over with her? Continue like what? What a bunch of horseshit. He knows that he has no intention of divorcing Kelly and is trying to buy time.
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When he first told me that he was interested in dating me I told him that he needed to take care of things at home first because I don't go out with married men. At first Paul said that he and Kelly had been over for years and it was just a simple task to end things and he did not need any time. Yeah - right.
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It sounded like a new tactic to me. I told him to call me when he had his shit together. In Virginia, that would mean about 6 months. I wondered how long it would be before he contacted me again. I knew that if and when he did that Kelly would still be there and nothing would have changed - he would just have another stupid excuse/story.
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Next: 6 months?? How about 3 days?





2 comments:

Mack Truck said...

My question to you is, should he actually divorce his wife, will you then go out with him?

Or do you plan to kick him to the curb even if he complies, and then laugh at him?

Yeah, the guy's a skank and a loser and the chances of him getting divorced are remote, but why are you toying with him?

I've been following this blog out of morbid curiousity, and even though I think this douche needs to be hung out to dry, I'm wondering what you've done or said to make him keep sending you all these texts and e-mails.

If you're leading him on, however subtly, then you're barely one rung above him on the morality ladder.

Your anger at this creep is puzzling, considering that you and he have supposedly never hooked up.

You sound more like a woman scorned, than someone playing a horny man for a fool.

Either cut him loose, or tell his wife he's cheating, and get on with your life.

paul_linn_is_a_jerk said...

Thanks for the input - your feedback is very much appreciated. But now you are getting me to spill some of the beans - so to speak. LOL

"My question to you is, should he actually divorce his wife, will you then go out with him"

If he had been serious and done that right in the beginning like he had said, I would have.

"Or do you plan to kick him to the curb even if he complies, and then laugh at him?"

I would never in a million years do that to someone. That would be cruel and sick - and that describes Paul, not me.

..."but why are you toying with him?"

I NEVER toyed with him - he toyed with me. That is the whole point of the blog.

"If you're leading him on..."
He was leading me on.


"Your anger at this creep is puzzling"

Wouldn't you be angry at someone who lied to you to try to have an affair with you?

"Either cut him loose, or tell his wife he's cheating, and get on with your life."

You can't cut loose what you never had.

As for getting on with my life, I never stopped! If I were obsessed, I would be blogging everyday.

Similar to you reading this blog, I only kept talking to him out of morbid curiousity. I realized pretty quickly that he was only playing games with me and had no respect for me - I only wanted to see how far the skank would take it. As for leading him on, everytime he told me he wanted to have a relationship with me, I called him on it. Over and over. HE kept trying to convince me otherwise. HE said he was NOT like every other cheating SOB. He proved me right in the end. I am doing this blog because I am going to write a book about it.

Based on your input and Amity, it appears that I am doing a poor job of communicating the purpose of this blog. I am not obsessed and I do have a life.