Friday, February 27, 2009

#5 Clue I Love You









You know, if this guy had been single and sending me these messages, I would have been THRILLED!!!! However, he is not single. Therefore, these messages are SICK! Imagine what Kelly would feel if she knew that her supposed 'loving husband' is writing emails and text messages (and sending letters, post cards, and voice mails) to another woman.
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Someone I have a lot of respect for.
Paul has no respect for anyone - what asshole thinks it is respectful to tell a woman that he loves them while he goes home and supports/fucks his wife that he claims to hate???
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I can't even count the number of text messages that had ILY, IMY or I can't wait to see what the future has for us. Emails by the score about what we were going to do when he got rid of his horrible, selfish, self centered wife.
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What he really means: I think women really like to hear this shit, so I will lay it on really thick. Maybe I'll get some.
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If he really meant it he would have texted/emailed: I have filed for divorce and the papers will be finalized by xyz date.

6 comments:

hoppytoad79 said...

What is the "mexican lunch" he refers to in the last screencap you posted? He makes it sound like you two went out on a date or something, and considering how you feel I'm wondering what kind of drugs that idiot's been snorting to think you two went out for lunch together.

paul_linn_is_a_jerk said...

No date!! I met him for lunch to discuss my horse's training. He did not pay for my meal. And if I knew how to add a document to the blog, I would add my 'story' on how that training went!!!

I work in section of the energy industry that is 99% male and my job requires that I develop 'long-term working relationships' with the customers, suppliers, co-workers in other divisions etc. I am frequently involved in conferences, meetings, lunches, dinners, trips (in the states and abroad)and am usually the only woman in the group. Paul was one of those people. He seemed to be a nice person, but as soon as he told me the "I'm leaving my wife crap" the red flags went up. I told him so flat out I did not believe him -this blog is how he tried to convince me otherwise. I was right.

This public lunch took place right after he told me that he wanted a relationship. I was very uncomfortable.

I hope this makes sense...

JumpIt said...

Heh, I'm a texting fiend...but what does IMY mean?

This is a fantastic blog. Are you ever going to let him or kelly know about this blog?

paul_linn_is_a_jerk said...

IMY = I miss you

"Are you ever going to let him or kelly know about this blog?"

No, I don't see any reason to. Do you think I should?

I am writing this blog because I plan on writing a book about the whole sordid mess - it should be hilarious!! This is helping me organize my thoughts while I let other women know some of the sick tactics that men use to try to convince you that they 'are different - not like all those other creeps who cheat on their wives!!!' Ha ha

JumpIt said...

I don't know if you should or not; I was just curious. The book should have the same title as your blog. Cracks me up every time lol

hoppytoad79 said...

I had a feeling it was something like that.

It takes a 'special' kind of guy to come on to a business associate when he's married and think she'll be like, "Hmm...you're married, which isn't cool, but since you say you really do want to leave your wife, even though lots and lots of married guys have used this line in the past to get some tail on the side, I'll believe you because you smile real nice. Come take me, you handsome stud!" XP