More from Kelly

Ides of March is now officially commenting at the new and improved blog. See my latest response to her.
http://thesecretlifeoflurch.blogspot.com/

New posting - August 25

See http://thesecretlifeoflurch.blogspot.com/

Special Request - from Kelly

Kelly is still lurking about. She has a special request - See comment #5 July 17.

I have no clue what difference it makes, but here they are - the first page of the letter and the entire second page. Must mean something to Kelly. Maybe she just wanted proof that they were written to me from Paul.

There are a couple of sentences I marked out - they had to do with our customers and confidential problems they had with their equipment. Which also explains the text message he received from me when he landed - work related.

I believe that Pony Up is 110% correct.

New posting........

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A Win-Win

OK - so after reading the positively pathetic comments by Kelly actually trying to defend what Paul says, I have decided to shut this blog down. You win Kelly!!! Congrats. Now go away and take care of things that should be important in your life.

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What annoys me the most about the whole situation is that I used to stick up for Kelly when Paul put her down!! And this is the thanks I get. Of course, I do realize that Paul has filled her head with lies.

Here is a simple example: Paul complained that Kelly does needlepoint or cross stitch (he claimed he had no clue what it was called) and Kelly actually had the nerve to try to talk to him about that boring stuff. Paul told me he HATES that crap. Well, I certainly was taken aback. While some of my hobbies include 'manly' things like welding, furniture refinishing, and working on my truck engine, what Paul did not realize is that I too, do 'girley' stuff. I enjoy cooking (Paul claimed that Kelly totally sucks at cooking - and very rarely bothers at all - he said he does 99% of the cooking - and laundry too!!! - and he is pissed because he works and she doesn't), quilting, crocheting, knitting (European method) and needlepoint when I find the time. I told him that it was pretty shitty of him not to be supportive of his wife's hobbies just because he doesn't like them. He quickly dropped the subject. Although quilting came up about a year later.......

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Since I do not like to lose - I have come up with the perfect Win-Win situation!!!

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http://thesecretlifeoflurch.blogspot.com/

The Secret Life of Lurch

Lurch (about 30 years ago):

For those of you following the blog about Paul, I am sure you will find the new one just as informative and entertaining as this one. In fact, I am positive. Granted, it is completely made up, but might in fact have characters and situations that are quite similar actual real life situations. But any similarity is purely coincidental.

Bertha (also taken about 30 years ago - she has much shorter hair now - but still has the mustache!!):

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This is the story of Lurch and Bertha and how Lurch cheats on Bertha - just like so many men do in real life!!! And it contains helpful information on how to spot those scum bags who cheat. So update your links and here we go....

If it does not work, email me at viewfrom32@yahoo.com and I will send you the link - and, yeah, there is a certain irony in using that account!!! :-)

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I will leave this up for awhile so that my readers can find the new blog.

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And Kelly - if you do show up at the fictional blog, please remember to be polite, respect others, and use logic. Your questions might be answered - accusations or rudeness or incoherent rantings will either be ignored or deleted. Although all of your correspondence to me has been 'ugly,' you would be surprised to find that I am a nice, fair and reasonable (albeit, snarky) person - why else do you think Paul chased after me for so long????

She's baaaaaaaaaack!!!

(See comments on last post)

'The letters you wrote my husband are beyond hateful"

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REALLY?????!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Did he show you the ones he wrote telling me how much he loves me and wants to be with me? The ones where he is unhappy and stuck in a rut? I thought not....

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Text message from Paul: "Well, darn- I called and thought u were asleep, so I plugged the phone in & went 2 trim Dallas. I sure do miss u. Will b so glad when this is past & we can c (sic) what life has in store 4 us. U r wonderful...

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And I bet he only showed you the ones that would make you angry at me. A smart move on his part - he deflected all your anger in my direction so you would ignore what he has done. He played you rather easily.

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I do not understand why Kelly is showing up here posting - that is just asking to be the focus of the blog. If the blog is causing 'intense pain' one does not read it, much less post to it! And it is messing up the blog - I simply wanted to write a blog about the tactics married men use to cheat on their wives using a real life situation. I surely did not want to get into a pissing contest with the gullible wife. I never said I was perfect and that I did not make mistakes. That does not change the lies and tactics Paul used.

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So, let's have a little background here. The type of background that I am sure Paul would not provide. The letters (actually, snarky stories) started as one of my final efforts to get Paul to let leave me alone. I was walking on a tightrope because Paul was in a 'position of authority' at work and I seriously felt like my job was in jeopardy if I did not handle it right. As I had been nice to him, Paul no doubt would have done EXACTLY what he is doing now - putting the blame on me (per the letter from the lawyer - Paul claims that I am angry because HE REJECTED ME!!!! Holy Shit Batman!!!!!!) I have never in my life pursued a man, much less a married one. And I sure as heck don't want anyone's sloppy seconds - or thirds - or fourths........

I thought I had finally gotten him to back off and quit telling me he was leaving Kelly (i.e. - he would agree to leave me alone by a certain date and after that date, he would disappear and quit contacting me) Well, it did not work. That certain date? Well, by that date Kelly was going to be out of the house and moved in with her mother. Of course it did not happen. (And yes, I have a whole series of emails on that. My blog is getting totally messed up - I had planned on following this whole saga in a chronological order)

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So when that date came Paul of course told me the whole sob story of how things were not working out and how now he was hoping for a MIRACLE!!! Yes, that's right folks, now he was hoping for a miracle so that he could be with me. The miracle, of course, was that Kelly would be somehow magically be gone and he could be with me.

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Miracle: An event that appears inexplicable by the laws of nature and so is held to be supernatural in origin or an act of God

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You have no idea how I gagged when I heard that. I have never heard a more spineless thing in my life. Let me go back to my original postings -

What he really means: I ain't doing jack shit, but I'm still pulling stuff out of my ass because I want a piece of yours.

If he really meant it he would have said: I have an appointment with my divorce lawyer. No miracles needed.

So, what about those letters. I wrote a WHOLE SERIES of letters to get him to leave me alone. Letters about how lousy of a person he was, how rotten of a person I was, how crappy of a horse trainer he was, how awful he was at his job - you name it - I wrote it. Paul had told me early on how he did not like himself/his decisons/his skills critisized. So I thought that if I wrote stuff knocking down everything about him he would leave me alone. It did not work. He said that he knew I did not mean any of it and he would ALWAYS love me.
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Let's look at the fact that Paul gave Kelly that letter. What kind of man does that? Most normal women want the type of man that would do whatever it took to protect them from any kind of hurt. That is what a real man does. Instead, he INTENTIONALLY gave her a letter (written to him for the purpose of getting him to leave me alone) to hurt her to protect HIMSELF.

Let me make this perfectly clear - PAUL GAVE KELLY THAT LETTER FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE OF HURTING HER TO GET HER TO DIRECT HER ANGER AT ME AND NOT AT HIM.

I wrote the letters/stories to get him to leave me alone. The letters were not meant for Kelly - Paul made the choice to hurt Kelly by showing them to her. What a man.
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I LOVE my readers - you guys are spot on........... (well, except for one of you)

You can't make this stuff up!!

Got a letter a few weeks ago from 'the lawyer .' Paul and Kelly will be filing a lawsuit against me for the 'intense pain' the blog is causing them if I didn't delete it completely and within 24 hours of receipt of the letter. Specifically, they are claiming IIED - 'Intentional infliction of emotional distress' .

Seriously.

I am not making this up.


So, I have been putting together my case the past couple of weeks.

Ironically, I am taking some advice Paul gave me awhile ago regarding someone bad from my childhood: "Don't let him win."

For some unknown reason Paul has singled me out and decided to try to mess up my life - first with the affair crap and now with this. And to think I was actually nice to the guy!!! Sometimes you just have to take a stand and say I've had enough.

House hunting in the RAIN???

I got home today and it was pouring rain. As I was driving down my road, I noticed something strange. The car in the photo above (YGF-XXXX) was stopped in front of my house and as I pulled around them to get in my driveway, I saw that the guy in the driver's seat was taking pictures of my house. The woman that was with him (with very noticeable 'buck teeth') gave me the dirtiest look. Do I know them? Not at all. Is my house for sale? Absolutely not. The two houses down the street are for sale (and have been for 2 years), but they were taking pictures of MY house. As I live on a dead end road, they had to continue up the road and turn around to get out of my subdivision.
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So I took pictures of them as they left. They did not take pics of any other house and did not even slow up a little when they went by the houses that were for sale, so I do not think they were househunting.

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Why would someone take pics of my house in the pouring rain and give me a dirty look? Am I being paranoid? I do not trust Paul or Kelly AT ALL. Especially after Kelly threatened me with her lawyer and Paul told me on several occasions that he thinks that the law only applies to 'stupid' people. What do you guys think?

The Chase is on!!

OK - so this great guy at work tells me he loves me and wants to date me even though he is married (but he is getting a divorce - any day now), so I have to do whatever it takes to be near him. I work at facility 'B' and he works at facility 'A' and even though his trips to facility B have increased exponentially so he can visit me, I just know that I have to do something!!! What should I do? I know - I will update my resume and try for any and every job at Paul's facility so I can be near my honeybunch!!! I will make lots of phone calls and call in some favors. There are so many women he works with that I need to defend my claim on him and eliminate the competition. He is such a prize - I cannot lose him!
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Ooops - that is Paul's fantasy - now for a dose of reality!
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Yes, I did update my resume. And I did call everyone I knew to get a new job. However, I was looking for a job at facility 'C' and only C - Paul had no reason (other than one or two times a year) to go there. I even sent my resume to lots of outside companies. Anything to not have to work with him. It took a couple of months to get the new job and finally move. While I had to split my time 50/50 between the old and new job during my transition period, at least I was at a different facility. That new facility, by the way, takes longer to get to and is not nearly as nice as the one I left. I would have rather stayed at facility B, but C is MUCH nicer because Paul is not there!!! The interesting part about this whole thing is that I actually told Paul I was taking the new job to get away from him - he had the nerve to tell me that he was still dumping Kelly and was going to prove me wrong because he loved me and wanted to be with me because I was perfect for him. It was just taking longer than he expected to get rid of Kelly. Yeah - right.

Up next: so what does Paul do about my move???
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Full disclosure - I was seriously considering looking for a new job (at any of the 3 facilities) because my boss - who was not supposed to be my boss when I took the job - was very 'inexperienced' and made some REALLY bad decisions (and still does). However, I was going to wait another year before I started looking..........................

To my readers - thanks :-)

Comments are messed up!

Not sure what is happening, but the comments are seriously messed up! They are either missing, not posted, I am unable to post them, they have the wrong dates, or in some cases, the dates in the 'comment moderation' section keep changing! My apologies if I made an error .............................. I hope Google/Blogger is working on it :-)